how even when the family loves each other so dearly, the real reason why we do not contact each other as often as we should is because of things like busy schedules or moving away.
Interestingly, it’s not just about how often you talk, but the quality of those conversations and visits. According to a research by PubMed, “checking the box” with a quick phone call does not always translate to being close. It’s the quality of the time spent together and showing up for each other when it counts that makes the relationship real.
Getting distant from your parents usually happens slowly and as a result of the logistics of adulthood.
Whether it’s a standing Sunday night FaceTime, a quick text to say ‘thinking of you,’ or making the drive when you can, it’s all about keeping the drifting at bay. It takes effort to stay close, and it’s
